Language can give us clues to spiritual truths. Greek prefix dys- (as in dyspepsia) and the Latin dis- (as in dishonorable) are both derived from “duo” meaning two. Dubious and doubt mean two minded.
Great mystics speak of oneness. Scientists tell us of rapidly circulating atoms that make up everything visible. In one year 98% of the atoms in our body are different atoms. Theoretically we have in us atoms that were once in every other person, animal, and plant that ever existed.
At the cosmic/spiritual level we are One, one in Spirit, one in God. At the physical level we are one. It is our opinions, whether true or false or muddled, that seem to divide us.
C. S. Lewis spoke of people getting bent. The extremely bent are tipped over the edge by fiery and extreme language of the mistaken shouting hatred and horrid name calling.
I call on humanity to pull back from the cliff of extremism and turn to dialogue that is civil. Remember our actual oneness. As a pebble thrown in a body of water makes outgoing ripples, so too our words and actions make ripples in the world. Make ripples of love, of thoughtful and calm dialogue, of peace and kindness
If you say you are a Christian, follow Christ by striving to be Christ-like. If you admire Buddha, strive to be Buddha-like. The word Islam means peace and submission to God. The core of Judaism is One God. the Torah and ethical living. The core of Taoism is harmony with nature and effortless living.
None of the great religions teach twoness,violence, murder, strife as virtues. Let us turn to these higher truths and attune ourselves to them.